Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Would you rather questions for a night out together

Plans, picks and the eternal question of who chooses the restaurant.

1. 1.Would you rather cook dinner together or order in and watch a movie?
2. 2.Would you rather go on a surprise outing or plan every detail together?
3. 3.Would you rather dance at a fancy event or dance in the kitchen?
4. 4.Would you rather have a picnic in the park or have dinner on a rooftop?
5. 5.Would you rather go to a concert together or go to a comedy show?
6. 6.Would you rather take a cooking class together or take a dance class together?
7. 7.Would you rather spend a whole day at a museum or spend a whole day at an amusement park?
8. 8.Would you rather watch the sunrise together or watch the sunset together?
9. 9.Would you rather recreate the first time you went out or do something neither of you has ever tried?
10. 10.Would you rather have a game night for two or have a movie marathon for two?
11. 11.Would you rather go stargazing or go to a drive-in movie?
12. 12.Would you rather get dressed up for no reason or stay in pajamas all day together?
13. 13.Would you rather try a new restaurant every week or have one favorite spot you always go to?
14. 14.Would you rather go bowling or go mini golfing?
15. 15.Would you rather build a blanket fort or set up a tent in the backyard?
16. 16.Would you rather take a long walk with no phones or take a long drive with a great playlist?
17. 17.Would you rather browse a farmers market together or browse a flea market together?
18. 18.Would you rather have breakfast in bed or have dessert for dinner?
19. 19.Would you rather go ice skating or go roller skating?
20. 20.Would you rather paint each other's portraits or write each other a short poem?

Would you rather questions about life at home

Who cooks, who cleans and who controls the thermostat.

1. 21.Would you rather always do the cooking or always do the dishes?
2. 22.Would you rather share one big closet or have separate closets?
3. 23.Would you rather get a dog together or get a cat together?
4. 24.Would you rather have a messy home full of plants or have a spotless home with no plants?
5. 25.Would you rather control the thermostat or control the TV remote?
6. 26.Would you rather wake up early together or stay up late together?
7. 27.Would you rather live in a tiny house or live in a huge old house that needs work?
8. 28.Would you rather decorate for every holiday or never decorate at all?
9. 29.Would you rather do all the grocery shopping or do all the laundry?
10. 30.Would you rather have a garden you grow food in or have a pool you have to clean?
11. 31.Would you rather plan the weekly meals or plan the weekend fun?
12. 32.Would you rather build furniture together or paint a room together?
13. 33.Would you rather have a reading nook or have a home gym?
14. 34.Would you rather share every streaming account or keep separate watch lists?
15. 35.Would you rather host every family holiday or never host a holiday?
16. 36.Would you rather always make the bed or never make the bed?
17. 37.Would you rather have a big backyard or have a big kitchen?
18. 38.Would you rather wake up to breakfast made for you or come home to dinner made for you?
19. 39.Would you rather have a weekly cleaning day together or each clean a little every day?
20. 40.Would you rather keep every birthday card or keep every printed photo?

Would you rather questions about traveling together

Carry-on or the big suitcase? Beach or snow?

1. 41.Would you rather take a road trip or take a train trip?
2. 42.Would you rather go somewhere warm or go somewhere snowy?
3. 43.Would you rather plan the whole trip or book a flight and figure it out there?
4. 44.Would you rather stay in a cabin in the woods or stay in a hotel in a big city?
5. 45.Would you rather go on a cruise or go camping?
6. 46.Would you rather visit every national park or visit every big city in Europe?
7. 47.Would you rather travel with carry-ons only or bring as much luggage as you want?
8. 48.Would you rather learn the language before a trip or get by with pointing and smiling?
9. 49.Would you rather go on a food tour or go on a history tour?
10. 50.Would you rather take one big trip a year or take lots of weekend trips?
11. 51.Would you rather hike to a waterfall or swim in a hot spring?
12. 52.Would you rather travel with friends or travel just the two of you?
13. 53.Would you rather sleep in on vacation or see the sights at sunrise?
14. 54.Would you rather rent a beach house or rent a mountain cabin?
15. 55.Would you rather take a hot air balloon ride or take a helicopter tour?
16. 56.Would you rather get lost in a new city or follow a perfect itinerary?
17. 57.Would you rather bring home souvenirs or bring home only photos?
18. 58.Would you rather go somewhere new every time or go back to your favorite place?
19. 59.Would you rather go on a safari or go scuba diving?
20. 60.Would you rather have a staycation or go somewhere far away for a weekend?

Would you rather questions about your future together

Big dreams and small plans for the years ahead.

1. 61.Would you rather move to a new city together or stay close to family?
2. 62.Would you rather retire early and travel or work longer and buy a dream home?
3. 63.Would you rather know where you'll be in ten years or let it be a surprise?
4. 64.Would you rather plan a big trip every anniversary or throw a party every anniversary?
5. 65.Would you rather start a business together or keep work and home separate?
6. 66.Would you rather live abroad for a year or build your dream home?
7. 67.Would you rather have a big wedding or have a tiny wedding?
8. 68.Would you rather spend money on experiences or spend money on things?
9. 69.Would you rather learn an instrument together or learn a language together?
10. 70.Would you rather have a house full of pets or have a house full of guests?
11. 71.Would you rather write letters to open in ten years or make a time capsule?
12. 72.Would you rather run a marathon together or climb a mountain together?
13. 73.Would you rather plan every year in advance or take life one month at a time?
14. 74.Would you rather grow old in a beach town or grow old in a mountain town?
15. 75.Would you rather save for a dream trip or save for a dream car?
16. 76.Would you rather start a new tradition every year or keep the same traditions forever?
17. 77.Would you rather volunteer together once a month or take a class together once a year?
18. 78.Would you rather build a cabin together or restore an old car together?
19. 79.Would you rather celebrate every small win or save the celebrating for big moments?
20. 80.Would you rather have one big adventure or have a hundred small ones?

Silly would you rather questions for couples

No right answers, just good arguments.

1. 81.Would you rather swap voices for a day or swap wardrobes for a day?
2. 82.Would you rather only talk to each other by singing or only talk to each other in rhymes?
3. 83.Would you rather wear matching outfits every day or get matching haircuts?
4. 84.Would you rather read each other's minds or always know where the other one is?
5. 85.Would you rather star in a reality show together or star in a cooking show together?
6. 86.Would you rather have a theme song that plays when you walk in or have a laugh track that follows you around?
7. 87.Would you rather be famous as a couple or be secretly famous on your own?
8. 88.Would you rather get stuck in an elevator together or get stuck at the top of a Ferris wheel together?
9. 89.Would you rather only eat food your partner cooks or only eat food you cook for your partner?
10. 90.Would you rather adopt a pet llama or adopt a pet goat?
11. 91.Would you rather always win at board games or always win friendly debates?
12. 92.Would you rather have a tiny dragon as a pet or have a talking parrot?
13. 93.Would you rather switch jobs for a week or switch phones for a week?
14. 94.Would you rather wear socks on your hands for a day or wear your shoes on the wrong feet for a day?
15. 95.Would you rather live in a treehouse together or live on a houseboat together?
16. 96.Would you rather have your partner pick your outfits or have your partner pick your meals?
17. 97.Would you rather only watch movies your partner picks or only listen to music your partner picks?
18. 98.Would you rather be a superhero duo or be a detective duo?
19. 99.Would you rather time travel together to the past or time travel together to the future?
20. 100.Would you rather give each other new names for a year or swap birthdays for a year?

How to play would you rather as a couple

Would you rather works with just two people. Take turns reading a card, both pick an answer, then explain your choice. The fun is in the reasons, not the answer, so ask a follow-up question before moving on.

Play it at dinner, on a long drive or while you're waiting in line. Open this page, pick a group and swipe through the cards one at a time. The rules for bigger groups are on the would you rather page.

Turn it into a guessing game

Once you've played a few rounds, try guessing each other's answers before you say yours. Read the card, both write a guess for the other person on your phone or a scrap of paper, then reveal. One point for every right guess.

• Start with Nights out and Home life. They're easy and quick.
• Save The future for a slow evening, when there's time to talk.
• Silly works anytime, especially when one of you is grumpy.

You'll be surprised how often you get it wrong, and that's the best part. It's a simple way to learn something new about someone you already know well.

More games for two

For more questions, try get to know you questions for couples or most likely to questions for couples. The games for two page has more ideas for a night in.

Planning a whole evening? Start with a few rounds of would you rather while dinner cooks, play a game of Draw & Guess at the table, and end with the slower questions about the future. Two people, one phone, nothing to set up.

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