Pick an icebreaker that doesn't make people cringe
Bad icebreakers ask strangers to reveal something personal on the spot. Good ones give people something easy to react to. Start with opinions, move on to games, and save anything personal for groups that already trust each other.
- New group or first day: Would You Rather, In Order or Name 3 Things.
- A team that knows each other a little: Red Flag or Green Flag, Odd One Out, Never Have I Ever or Most Likely To.
- Team building with a goal: In Order, Don't Say It, Forehead Guess or Word Groups, where you only win by working together.
How to run an icebreaker at work
- 1Keep it short. Five to ten minutes at the start of a meeting is plenty.
- 2Explain the rules in one sentence, then start. The first card teaches the game better than you can.
- 3Go first yourself. People relax when the person running the meeting answers a silly question.
- 4Let people pass, and don't ask why.
- 5Stop while people are still enjoying it, then get to the agenda.
Icebreakers for remote teams
On a video call, the host opens the game in a browser and shares their screen. For Would You Rather and Most Likely To, have everyone type their answer in the chat on three. The quiet people get heard too.
For team building on a call, Forehead Guess works well: the host shares the screen, the guesser looks away and their team gives clues. Word Groups is the calmer option. One person shares the puzzle and the whole team argues it out.
Keep it comfortable for everyone
- Skip dares and anything physical at work.
- With new groups, skip games that single people out. Most Likely To is for teams with some history.
- Think about language. Word games are harder in a second language, so put those players on a team rather than alone.
- Keep it optional. The colleague who watches today often joins next week.
Questions
What's a quick icebreaker for a work meeting?
Would You Rather. Read one card, have everyone answer in a sentence, and you're done in five minutes. It works in person or with your screen shared on a call.
Are these games appropriate for work?
Yes. Every deck is clean. At work, stick to categories like School & work and Life choices in Would You Rather, or Work & school in Red Flag or Green Flag, and skip anything that singles people out.
What are good team building games for a small team?
Don't Say It and Forehead Guess for 4 to 20 people in teams, and In Order or Odd One Out for a smaller group in the same room. All of them reward listening and quick thinking.
Can we use these icebreakers with a remote team?
Yes. Would You Rather, Most Likely To, Never Have I Ever, Forehead Guess and Word Groups all work on a video call. In Order, Odd One Out and Name 3 Things need everyone in one room.
How long should an icebreaker take?
Five to ten minutes before a meeting. For a team building session, plan 30 to 45 minutes and switch games once or twice.
Does everyone need to download something?
No. The games run in a browser, and usually only one person needs the page open. There's no app and no sign-up.
Are these icebreaker games free?
Yes. Every game is free and supported by ads.